In Defense Of Lola Omotayo Okoye -- Deschil

This post was written by a fan called Deschil

Each time I read the nasty comments about Lola Omotayo Okoye my heart
gets heavy. I do not know her in person- just like most of you. She
has been called "old", "shameless" even a "gold digger"! Some "kind"
people even empathize with her and "understand" that Peter married her
because of her kids.
Let's get a few things straight;

*.Nobody has the right to choose another person's spouse

*.I was in school with Psquare, Peter had a girlfriend-Ada-whom he was
crazy about. Ada is a splitting image of Lola...does that imply
anything?

*.Age is not the determinant of a good marriage; either party could be older

*.Prince Charles married "much younger" Diana, how did that go? How
old is his present wife-whom he loved all along?

*.Prince Williams forsook all the "younger girls" in England and
married an older bride
*.Sullivan Chime married a "much younger" Clara; again, how did that go

*.For those who went as far as calling Lola a runs girl, who sleeps
with her "uncles", do you know this lady? Do you know this for a fact
or is it just hear say? Why defame an innocent lady who is minding her
own business? Do you think Peter is a fool?

*.For those who justify these rumours with the story of her living in
a "mansion" in Ikoyi-shebi you people say she is old? Do you know she
has a career, did you expect that at her "old age" she wouldn't have
risen through the ranks?

*.For those of you who see only young brides as a wise choice, it is
because you haven't gotten married yet. There are some childish
attributes the young wife will have that will make you almost regret
the marriage-that is if you don't do that eventually

*.Peter knew very well what he was doing. He wants peace,
companionship and joy. A mature and experienced mother for his kids.
He saw all the "young girls" world over before he made his beautiful
choice.